@Noen
One: I am a she not a he.

Two: I still object the the use of "our". Words make a difference.
One: I'm nearly 100% confident that the commenter was referring to the other person as he, not you.

Two: So does this mean I can't refer to my neighbors, my coworkers, or my siblings anymore?

I think you're misreading. On both one and two.

If you want to see the early web, just spend some time on your local real estate broker web site. Embedded midi, animated .gifs, poorly resized images, you name it. And the truly sad thing is that these brokers are paying people to make these websites and getting this in return.